First step

10.10.2017

Been married for 2 years now but my last menses was one year and eight months ago. Abnormal? 

Amenorrhea. That's the term.  This irregular cycle started when I was 12, I missed my period for eight months, and since then it has been a love-hate relationship. Kejap ada, kejap tak ada. 

Why waited until 1 year & 8 months to seek for treatment? Well, I went to few private clinics and had my womb scanned, and they found nothing. So I waited, I thought the period will come sooner or later. But I guess nak tunggu sampai bila lagi? I'm getting older. 

My husband has been very supportive along the way. Tak pernah nak ungkit pasal anak, all he ever wanted for me to have my period. Then we will figure the rest out. 

So yesterday, I went to the nearest Klinik Kesihatan and got a referral letter to O&G Clinik of Hospital Serdang . My appointment with Gynae will be on 2nd January 2018.

Dekat hospital, nurse about to take my blood for progestron test; 

Nurse: Hari ni hari ke berapa?
Me: Err.. saya dah lama tak period
Nurse: Tapi awak mesti kira cycle awak kan? Mesti tahu hari keberapa? 
Me: Saya dah setahun lebih tak period, so saya memang tak boleh kira cycle.
Nurse: *Baru tengok referral letter* Ohh... Amenorrhea.. 

So a negative upt and a tube of blood. I cant wait for January. 
Semoga Allah permudahkan segala urusan :)